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We are not psychologists or sociologists, we've just been screwed over one too many times. Our names are Gina and Dayna and at first we started this, with the thought of getting things off our chest. But then we realized we can help classy girls, like ourselves, deal with friendships, relationships, love, and of course how to love yourself. Life's not easy, you can't just order it off a silver platter, or get it to go, but at least you have us to classy takeout your order of questions, concerns, or need of advice! **This is just for fun! The advice we give is from our personal experiences -- it should not replace professional attention or advice!
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Monday, June 1, 2009

Dear Classy


Dear Classy,
This really hot guy wants a naked picture of me and i really like him a lot. I'm really uncomfortable sending him a picture... and its not like he's forcing me too. He's actually really nice and I don't want to let him down. But I don't trust him completely either. What should I do?
- Frazzled, 13, NY

Dear Frazzled,
It is never good to exploit yourself and your body, especially to a boy you do not know that well.  You never know how he would use those photos, there are plenty of cases where the pictures have been leaked.  Which even happened to a boy on Wake Forest University's football team.  The pictures can be then sent around to people in your school and the news can even get back to your parents.  
You can tell him no in a joking and even flirtatious fashion even.  Just tell him, "Pictures don't do me justice ;). The real thing is better and being saved for someone special."  And then if he pushes on anything else, it would be best to end communication with him lol.  Never let anyone take advantage of you, especially if it is something you are uncomfortable with.
Much Love,

Classy
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