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We are not psychologists or sociologists, we've just been screwed over one too many times. Our names are Gina and Dayna and at first we started this, with the thought of getting things off our chest. But then we realized we can help classy girls, like ourselves, deal with friendships, relationships, love, and of course how to love yourself. Life's not easy, you can't just order it off a silver platter, or get it to go, but at least you have us to classy takeout your order of questions, concerns, or need of advice! **This is just for fun! The advice we give is from our personal experiences -- it should not replace professional attention or advice!
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Thursday, June 4, 2009

5 Things People SHOULD Be Doing This Summer!

Okay so obviously the world is going broke poor… and doing fun things requires money right? WRONG. Try to do things that require less money or maybe even not a dime, you will be surprised how much more fun you could have and happier you will be.

1. Cooking at home!

This is actually starting to become a new trend! Even your favorite celebrities are cooking more family meals. Although you still need to spend some money grocery shopping, you can buy things in bulk and forget going out to eat and spending twenty dollars on a little tiny steak, that wasn’t even cooked the way you like it! So this summer try some new recipes with your friends and family, maybe have a barbeque, either way put your cooking skills to the test while entertaining your guests!

2. Scrap booking!***

Lets be real now, Facebook is not going to last forever, and if it does, well I am sure you don’t want that to be your only photo album to show your kids when you get older.  It might sound lame, but scrap booking can be really fun and cute to look back on when you get older! 

3. Get off Facebook! Stop texting! Have more face to face interaction!

This is pretty much common sense, but you would be surprised when you think about how much time you waste on Facebook, or texting when you can simply talk in person and her about that story last night, instead of reading it on your phone.  It’s no surprise anymore that people are really loosing social skills because all we do now is stalk people’s lives on Facebook instead of living our own!

4. Go to the park!

I honestly don’t remember the last time I went on the swings, okay well I am almost 20, but still having a picnic with your friends and just hanging out is when you can have the most fun.  Even going to central park in the city is such a great idea for a weekend mini trip.  Instead of shopping at the mall, or being inside, take advantage of the gorgeous day outside!

5. Do Yoga or Pilates (or hey! even yogalates)!

Yoga and Pilates are workouts that can sculpt and shape your body.  While yoga is more of a meditation exercise, uniting the mind, body and spirit, Pilates focuses on concentration, control, and centering and strengthens your powerhouse (abdominal muscles, pelvis, booty, and lower back) At first yoga and Pilates can be a little challenge, but after a few classes, it becomes easier and you will feel great inside and out! (And finally have that longly anticipated “beach bod” )


*** - We even do it! and love it :)

Monday, June 1, 2009

Dear Classy


Dear Classy,
This really hot guy wants a naked picture of me and i really like him a lot. I'm really uncomfortable sending him a picture... and its not like he's forcing me too. He's actually really nice and I don't want to let him down. But I don't trust him completely either. What should I do?
- Frazzled, 13, NY

Dear Frazzled,
It is never good to exploit yourself and your body, especially to a boy you do not know that well.  You never know how he would use those photos, there are plenty of cases where the pictures have been leaked.  Which even happened to a boy on Wake Forest University's football team.  The pictures can be then sent around to people in your school and the news can even get back to your parents.  
You can tell him no in a joking and even flirtatious fashion even.  Just tell him, "Pictures don't do me justice ;). The real thing is better and being saved for someone special."  And then if he pushes on anything else, it would be best to end communication with him lol.  Never let anyone take advantage of you, especially if it is something you are uncomfortable with.
Much Love,

Classy